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yepp. ive been working thos plan for over 8 months now. i knew shed come hoovering back so after the last discard i made my plan. i took my inspiration from ted bundy and became everything she wanted... or so she thinks. im just about ready to discard her hard now after she came back 2 months ago. created a perfect interject in her mind that she can never forget. shes already schizing and i havent even kicked her out yet, only emotionally not care. its destroying her. one for the team. for all us victims of narc abuse, i can do it.

my reasons for playing with my narc are revenge and sex. shes the most gorgeous and most sexual woman ive ever known. im using her back... for now. taking none of it. its destroying her right before my eyes. ill leave her with family when im done because she gets full schizo when mortified hard enough and this ones going to send her into oblivion. shes the rottenest beotch ove ever met and already caused other guys to go suicidal. so im getting revenge for them all along with myself. shes almost schizing now after about two months of this round.

Just found your channel Joe! You are very articulate and a calm voice that seems to resonate well! I very much appreciate what I get from your videos! Thanks so much!!!

Joe. You’re making the narc sound alluring. They’re not. They’re frauds. They don’t play their cards-they’re a house of cards. Full blown 🤡 ‘s. They’re not worth anything. They are con artists and frauds of humanity.

They erode your boundaries, they mirror your beautiful attributes and it forms a pseudo “soulmate effect. You develop a strong bond and blind trust to a total fraud of a person and a monster. That discard is an absolute blindside. Thanks Joe. ♥️

This is our 3rd round. I did loads of research and been planning my revenge for months. Shes at ready to go phase now and every time i tell her i dont care, leave sooner than later, shes injured. its destroying her. meanwhile im working out, getting stuff done. she cant leave because i wont care.

Walking dead ❤sad mental health

THANK YOU FATHER GOD ALMIGHTY FOR EXPOSING THE MAIN NARCISSIST I HAD IN MY LIFE

This weird cuz I can relate this to my truck dying,yesterday. That truck was my baby of past 4 years. It made me money. I also got rid of a 86 mustang that was mint. One sexy the other blue collar. I liked them both ,but I loved the truck to point I almost cried thinking it's the end of her. So different tools,different priorities.different feelings. When I took hot chick (car) out I got tons of narc booting love. My truck got no nice looks. I loved my truck,liked the car,love my mountain bike,and kayak . Love my cats. I don't love anything else.

Thanks Joe, you helped me a lot through this nightmare🥰🙏🌺

They hurt you, they are sneaky conniving, stealing, slandering, cheating and much more, but you don’t know they are evil at the time, really sadistic, to purposely hurt someone and act like you don’t care, don’t matter, they like you in panic,then ignore you. This is so sick, only a complete psycho would rob your family estate, slander you, live free , abuse you in your own home, and play victim. A man in his right mind would contribute not play games. No more empathy for anyone like this. They definitely underestimate you😂they aren’t too smart, they fall in the ditch they dug for you. They confuse meekness for weakness😂

They love to punish.

Something about how you speak is so validating, soothing , reassuring and makes me feel like I’m winning 🙏🏼 20 months no contact

They also totally underestimate us. The underestimation works against them.

When we ended he got a new phone number so I couldn't text him. No prob. But then he turned up at my house as a friend seemingly. No prob. A month later I turned up at his house...he said no pop up visits. No prob. So I couldn't ring nor go over. No prob. But then he popped over to my place, at wish point I said " follow your own rules...no pop up visits".😂😂😂. He literally painted himself into a corner, and much to his surprise...I let him stay there 😂❤

It's games of control. Horrible to be involved in. Fortunately we grow smarter,not dumber.

Any success you have they will take credit for it. They will say I did that. You only achieved this because of me

He has played me for 2 almost 3 years. He tried again last month and i said.. I'm not doing this again with you. I so wanted to believe him, he was so believable. But i walked away. I reacted in such a way that i don't treat people like that. OMG i feel crazy

This description is not human. Feeding off energy? That’s demonic. Thanks Joe.

Joe. Serious question-and please don’t get offended. Are you a narcissist?

Hearing you is healing me it’s so crazy…. How you speak about things in such order like story telling checking every box of the experience is crazy. Thank you

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You explained this so well!! This is all so spot on!!!! Thank you!!! 🎉😊

Until you finalize the boundaries they will in fact harass and torture you and blame the nicest most normal person for this aggressive sick behavior they insist on you

It was less like a gift and more like pay back because she earned it.

Their dominance over you.

My narc asked why i never chase her after i breakup with her. I asked her what am i chasing after. No response

A narcissist giving you the silent treatment is nothing more than a dry run showing you how great it's gonna be once you get them the fuck out of your life.

Never again!

power hungry Slytherins the party who cares less has more power so its important to not have any commitment with them

Hard to hear. Sad. It's still difficult for me to understand how narcissists/sociopaths, etc come out of the same homes as those on the opposite extreme, meaning empaths. Thank you, Joe and Happy early Independence Day! 🎇😊❤

Narcs blow up bridges. They remind me of the Joker. That final scene when he blows up the building-I think it was a hospital. Real life 🤡 clowns. Thanks Joe. ♥️

The narrator sounds like Edward Norton. If so, good for a Hollywood actor becoming self aware.

I just wish the narc would come around again, I really do wish he comes. I just wanna play with him a little like a cat plays with a mouse.

When you say that some people don’t recover from it, it scares me soo much.. **please God please, heal me from this pain I beg you I’m a good person and I never did anything bad like that to someone, please remove this from me 😔** 🙏🏼

He discarded me and blocked me then came to hoover me by unblocking me , sending me a message , deleting it and saying it was an accident. I'm kinda just laughing now at how pathetic it gets with such people.

Thanks for your insights.

There was a guy who I never even meet wanted me to go on a date with him he asked thru a mutual freind I declined the date. This guy when on a hate campaign and even tried to get me fired from my job. He was relentless for months he still creeps me out to this day.

Brilliant, well said❤highly enjoyed this lecture , myself npd survivor too, it definitely helped me towards a healthier state of mind on self love, motivational reflection having strength forever in the finales no contact separation. 1 of my favourite npd lectures you have done yet Joe ❤ much respect 🙏please keep up the good work, its certainly helping npd survivors out there process our healing 🎉

Magnificent take.💯👍👏

Non narcs are targets. Sex and grooming are there hobbies

They literally steal everything from you. Your energy, your character, your personality, your friends, your successes. Then they act like you don't even exist!

Like attracts like sadly they are our mirror! WEAKNESS

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So sickeningly true. I still can't believe people can be like this.

You bring such a thoughtful recognition of this. Thank you.

Things were left off very badly on his part luckily for me, so NEVER any further contact. Such an awful experience but so wonderful to escape!! 😂

Wishes me dead to my son's. Nice woman huh?

Yes told me he hated me all the times. Psychopaths don’t deserve anybody

Such a great video! All your videos are so good. You explain it all so well. These also are the same dynamics I recognize to have been in my toxic family. It could be your parents or your siblings or your cousins or the whole toxic lot but the actions and the thought process of these vile people start within the family dynamic. I’m hoping you’ll do some videos on family dynamics instead of just relationships between significant others. I don’t think if you have a good and happy childhood that you could get caught up with one of these people. I don’t think a healthy person would put up with the gaslighting or the confusion or the projections for more than a couple of weeks before their boundaries are strong enough to say you know what something is really weird with this person so I’m out of here. In a family when you’re just a young child and you have all of this chaos going on, the mental chaos and the games and alcoholism of the parents and infidelity and abuse both physical and verbal and emotional. It’s just a whirlwind of destruction to the mind of a child. I think it’s these children who end up in adulthood with these types of sick predators. It’s what they grew up with. It’s literally the same energy they learned how to navigate and wade through. It makes sense that they would then whether consciously or subconsciously be drawn to the same types of people. I was such a codependent people pleaser whose life was guided towards helping others whether it was financial or to help them get out of bad relationships. I mean, I was the expert on bad relationships but nothing I did ever for the most part helped anybody. None of those people were willing to get out of the toxic abusive relationships they were in so I was just wasting my time being their sounding board for them to call 15 times a day to tell me how awful their spouse was treating them and yet they always chose to stay. They also chose to make me the bad guy in their relationships. Once I knew the truth as to what was going on in the relationship and they didn’t want the social group they were around to know the truth and all the lies they were telling so I would get ousted, so truth and lies could be hidden. It’s a really mind blowing dynamic. These people are just so dangerous. I really do believe this is the root of all suicides. People get so deep into the confusion and they literally just can’t find their way out and who could live like that. Many choose not to.